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Buying a house for step kids who dislike you for expecting them to get job's

jiiim's picture

Relationships between two people are hard enough however when she has three adults thats hard iv'e been doing all this crap for ten years most of them years argueing, i is so hard i expect a bit of respect not just take their mum always takes there side being the poor child from a broken home crap, these two are now 23 and 24 expert platstation players been on every college course known to man just job dodgeing, im expected to keep these two and cos im not buying any food im the most hated by all three, i work hard everyday teaming rain the lot, cos i earn more money than her im expected to buy a house to pay for and leave half to these two lazy **** how hard is that to do and they would never thank you for it ever ever, over ten years ive done all kinds for them then you fall out with the mum and everyone hates you im completely fed up with all the s**** and told my one give somebody else all the S***, you end up argueing over idiots all the time then she runs out of money expecting me to pick them up then hates you when you say no way won't ask the dad and when she sees him it's all hiya how are you im the punchbag im expected to go for a meal with the dad id end up kicking his head in all the unneccary crap he's put me through through being tight, im sorry for bad grammar etc thanks for listening.

Smomof3's picture

I wish I had heard that 9 years ago. The only appreciation I guess is from the SS22 who has a job and has to pay bills and that only started in the past year.

smartone's picture

^^^^^THIS^^^^^ I am super pissed about the little money I spent on my bf's kids, on little things here and there. I can't imagine how it would feel to spend on major things...on ADULTS! They need to fall on their faces in order to learn their lesson and if mama doesn't want to let that happen, it's on HER, not you!

SebringLad's picture

I love NewWife3's Rule #1 !!!!!!!!!
It should be Mantra of all prospective Stepparents.

Smomof3's picture

Entitlement...they all have it. I dodn't think it goes away until they get a job and have to pay their own bills.