BM Calling DH over everything
SS13 BM has always called DH alto ( in my opinion) at first we would argue about it but then he started to see my side and has told her many times to stop unless its about SS. Well she found out she is PG and her man moved in so I thought yaaa finally she got her own life...but now she has started calling a ton. She even blows up his work phone. I am so sick of it. they haven't together in 12 years. She literally calls his crying about how stressed she is and how she is sad SS doesn't want to be there. We have SS 5 nights a week and most weekends to. I feel like she has no business calling him. and he needs to just stop answering. Does anyone else have this problem? I cant take it anymore and im tired of fighting about it I know that's what she wants.
He is the only one that can
He is the only one that can change it.
DH hubby will go off on her
DH hubby will go off on her and it will stop for awhile then start back up again. she always starts with a question about SS but I know that's not what its about.
My skids BM did this. A lot.
My skids BM did this. A lot. Until her and her bf became official my partner would be called. He wouldn't answer and text saying if it's about the boys just text. It's hard but you have to stick to it. He needs to find his balls and tell her. Only reason the bm in my situ behaves herself is because my partner doesn't put up with her crap.
Taken my SO over 2.5 years to
Taken my SO over 2.5 years to get the message of not answering phone calls and texts. Bm number is blocked on his phone by my insistence. He does still have a habit of answering her emails immediately but hey small steps!
Agree with everyone only your husband can shut her down. He has to be the one to ignore her. Good luck!