So I am officially done... Someone tell me if I am being unreasonable here. I travelled 5 hours to have my sons 1st birthday around SOs family and mine. My mom got sick and couldn't come (totally not her fault). My SOs sister had her baby on Tues night so it seemed like perfect timing. We left thursday and have planned his party on sat since over a month ago. Well there are two suites here separated by a hall way. Low and behold his sister has planned to have all of her boyfriends family over the exact hour that my sons birthday ends. SO and his brother aren't getting along so the entire "party" consisted of his brother sitting in the other suite with his sister and the new baby and his mom/SIL running between the suites. They had a disagreement on Friday because SO doesn't have any desire to be close with his fiancé (SOs Silver) because she insists on maintaining a close relationship with Bm. The SIL refers to BM as her sister and family. To boot by the time we got to presents everyone had left and my son opened his gifts on his own. Why? Because his family had come... And everyone went to visit at his sisters suite. I totally understand his sister and bf leaving to host their family thing and have his family meet the baby. I am so disappointed and angry I spent the night outside of my ss's room trying to put him down. I would rather listen to him screaming than be around anyone. Oh and to boot the boyfriends family is also BMs family.

At the end of the night once everyone had left everyone was acting completely casual. Like nothing was wrong
wrong. I guess SO lost it on them half way through the party. But then they all left before we did gifts. He didn't get one gift from any of SOs family except his estranged sister who stayed for the whole thing and gave him a gift. It's the first time we have met her. Now everyone is acting like everything is fine and normal and I am left feeling irrational and crazy.