I am starting to really dread sd15's upcoming weekend visit. We have 2 family functions on Saturday (1 with my family and the other with his). Sd has made it clear that my family is in no way a priority for her so hoping she chooses to stay home for that. I made it clear to dh that I would prefer that she stay home as opposed to whining to leave. The other family function she will attend but will no doubt show very little interest and find fault in me for getting along better with her family than she does since she is hardly ever around them.

I'm also dreading the stress dh exudes because sd and I hardly ever speak to one another. I juste don't care if we speak and prefer that we don't. She puts on an act towards me anyway and there's nothing more I hate other than liars is fake people. Some times I think I should be fake nice to her so when she does something disrespectful towards me then dh will see his dd for what she is. But then I know that dh will look past any of that.

I just have to find something to do on Sunday until she leaves. Something fun that she will want to do but won't get to do. Is that bad of me?