I got a note from her on Friday. If you're out there, j4, we're thinking about you!!!

~ Anne ~

Barely. I'm recovering from surgery. To make a long story short, my miscarriage wasn't a miscarriage but was an ectopic pregnancy instead. They caught it in time before my tube ruptured, but I have a lot of scar tissue so they couldn't do it with a laproscope (sp?), they went in through my c-section scar so I'm in rough shape. Not feeling well, and the pain killers make me really sick to my stomach. The doctor said I should be feeling better by the weekend though. I hope so because this is our weekend to have the kids. We were supposed to have ss on Tuesday, so bf called bm and told her that I was in the hospital because I just had emergency surgery and there was no way he could get ss that night... she was PISSED. I couldn't believe it. She wanted to know why I had surgery... bf wouldn't tell her (I didn't want her to know) and she wanted to know if he HAD to be there with me. He told her he didn't HAVE to, but he wanted to and that made her even more pissed. He told her that he wanted to get him Thursday night instead, and she goes in this snotty voice "Well, you'll just have to wait until the weekend then, I'm sure sm will NEED your help, and ss won't get any attention". She also managed to call his cell phone about 40 gazillion times while I was in the hospital, thank god he never answered it though. Oh, and remember how my bf's grandma was so pissed off at me when ss had a fever and I didn't jump up off the couch when she dropped him off to baby him and see what all was wrong with him etc? Yeah... she hasn't even called to check on me or say hi or anything. Not one word. She hasn't even asked my bf. Isn't that nice? I guess I'm not considered to be family since I'm not a blood relative or something. Hell, maybe she's just still pissed off about that incident who knows. Anyway, thanks everyone for all your well wishes and kind words... I have a lot of catching up to do since I've been gone.

I am just glad you are ok.. That is most important.

Let BM be pissed. She is probably just pissed off because he was never there for her like he is you.. And you are so right its none of her business why you are there...

And Grandma well personally she does not sound like the kinda grandma I had.. Grandma's are suppose to be sweet and caring.. I say let her go hang with the Biiitch.. LOL..

Glad we heard from you..

Take care of YOURSELF.. and blog when you can...
Happy

and I'm very sorry of your circumstances. I hope you can take all the time in the world to take care of yourself and get well!

I wish I could just smack bm for you! She is just self absorbed! Like Little Jo said, no regards for humanity...I'm so sorry.

As for Grandma, just consider the source. She must not be a very happy person to have no regards to call you and wish you well.

I wish you a speedy recovery!

Bests,
Candice

Sending prayers your way, I know your in pain both physically & mentally it can take quite a toll on you, I'm glad your BF is their for you, let BM be pissed, this is none of her biz., and you and BF need eachother right now. Take Good Care, hope you'll be back soon. Meshel