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Anniversary from hell!

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Submitted by stepmomdavis on Mon, 10/20/2014 - 2:22pm

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My DH and I were discussing our anniversary, which is tomorrow. Things have not been good between us for a while. I bought him a nice swing for the backyard. He will have to put it together as I am not handy so I told him what it was. He said that he wants "to cut me a check for half" so he doesn't "have" to go out and buy me a present. I was hurt and said so. In the discussion that followed I could sense that he does not give a damn about our anniversary so I told him I want to just forget going out as I don't want to go out when he is acting like he doesn't give a damn about me.

He said that he doesn't care about it and that he only married me so I could have his medical! I was so hurt. I am so hurt. He tried to tell me later that he loves me but I don't believe a thing that comes out of his mouth.

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Submitted by ThatEvilSM on Mon, 10/20/2014 - 2:28pm

:jawdrop: wait, what?? Oh hell no! how long have you guys being married?? kids?? I ma telling you, I would take the check and go out with my girls! ah!

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Submitted by SMLIFESUCKS on Mon, 10/20/2014 - 3:20pm

That is just awful. DH and I have been fighting but he'd never say that to me. I can't imagine someone telling me that they married me to give me medical. Tell him to stick that medical up his jerk ass.

Wow. I can't imagine how you must feel but it's obvious he doesn't care. I'm so sorry.

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Submitted by IslandGal on Mon, 10/20/2014 - 9:24pm

What an insenstivie piece of shit!!

Burn that goddamn swing to the ground and tell him to take his anniversary and jam it up his ass!!!

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Submitted by TheLadyTremaine on Tue, 10/21/2014 - 2:09am

I'm so sorry you've been treated like this. I don't have to know you to know that you don't deserve this because no one does. You aren't alone.

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Submitted by furkidsforme on Wed, 10/22/2014 - 8:34am

I don't normally suggest people here leave spouses, but GOD DAMN.

One of two things is happening here, and neither are good.
#1- Your DH has the mental capacity of a 12 year old boy, and is trying to goad you into leaving him because he doesn't have the balls to tell you he wants a divorce.

#2- You are married to a supremely verbally abusive masochistic asshole who actually enjoys inflicting pain upon you with his words.

So, either way... you really should go. This is really beyond "fixable". That is not the kind of thing someone who even has a scrap of love left says.