Hello Everyone. This is my second post here at ST. I LOVE this site, thank you to all who responded to my first post. Im making a new post here since I have a new question. Here goes:

We have DH's sons (my stepsons)ages almost 13,10 & 8 EOW and four weeks total in the summer/alternating holidays and stuff. My ss10 has alot of problems (which I listed in my other post "New stepmom wanting to pull her hair out"). This one somehow bugs me the most and is a constant.

SS10 will literally be on top of his Dad or right beside him (like touching his side with his body). Yes, it does bother me as DH pays ALL his attention while they are here to SS10. The two other boys and my BD are totally pushed to the side. He definitely favors the 10yr old...waaaaay too much!! If any of the other children or ME for gosh sakes gets at all near my DH, this boys throws the biggest of fits. He will either demand that I or the other child near DH MOVES. If anyone stands their ground (which DH rarely ever tries to)..the boy will run off upstairs to his room and pitch a gigantic fit..slamming doors, pounding reapeatldly on walls, etc. tears curtains out of the wall, breaks anything he can find...etc etc.

I get so darn annoyed!!!!! My hubby does NOT act like my hubby around these boys..but as soon as they all leave and go back to BM he is very very affectinate and attentive. BUT, like I said, nobody can dare get near DH or this boy will make your life HELL!!

I was shocked today when DH stood up for the other son, the eldest, ss13ish and said "no, I want to have some time with XXXX, you sat on me or near me allll day..let him have time with me too".. I about fell out of the chair!!! BUT, then SS10..not getting his way... stormed up the stairs and did all I explained above.. this went on for awhile then DH went up to "talk" to SS10 about why he is acting this way?? OMG..Are ya kidding me? We do this crap EVERY time they are here...and all DH is doing is STILL giving him the attention he wants!! WHY cant he see this?? So...later on...we were all watching a TV show together, all of us.. and again.. he wanting daddy to himself and to himself ONLY...now DEMANDING daddy do waht he wants or all he will go upstairs again like he did earlier..sooooo... what does DH do??? He freaking gave SS10 his hand and coddled him yet again...at bedtime he talked to SS10 for almost 45 Mins!! AGAIN, same shit different day... "BM said this about your new wife"..blah blah blah...again... the other two boys got barely any time again and only SS10 was coddled yet again and given his undivided attention!!!!

My question (sorry so long..im obviously frustrated) is.. what the hell is it going to take for DH to realize he has 3 bio sons AND a SD AND a WIFE?????? Seems to me we all should leave and let SS10 have daddy ALL for himself!!!!

Sorry so long... being able to vent sure helps!!!