Blogging about your Problems
Hi All
I am sure being a stepparent or second wife we are all faced with the same problems.
My Problems just never end.
We are constantly in and out of court with the x wife she is for ever dragging us to court for some reason and has never ever had a successful case against us.
She has also never really contributed financially and once again dragged us to court to get her maintenance reduced with this case pending for months and Finalised apparently on her terms I spiralled out of control and almost had a nervous breakdown so I started counselling as I had no way of coping on my own and this all happened about a month before our wedding day. So guess what I did...
Exactly what all of you do on this page I started sharing my story on line from day one. The ex wife has always accused me of lying and frauding email correspondence leaving me in a position where she is always the poor old victim. This time I decided there is no way that any one believe her story so I started a Blog called GL*** D*** of our Life and her Business was called GL*** D*** N*** a** B***** and she managed to find my blog. On my blog I would add proof of what ever I am saying eg. when I discuss the maintenance order and her not contributing I would add a copy of the divorce agreement (Maintenance section) I did not mention her name anywhere in my blog however I did not blog anonymously I also discussed other matters and added cropped photos.
WARNING TO ALL.
This landed me in hot water she approached the court and accused me of constantly harassing her and a couple of other things that is not TRUE. I then received a call from the Sheriff notifying me that I had to collect a interim protection order from them I then posted another blog notifying my readers of order and then received the order I Deleted all blogs as per the court order the following day after consulting a attorney for legal advice she then had a argument with my husband and 3 days later opened a contempt of court case against me to get back at him ...
This all happened in February 2015 we are now at the end of June 2015 and this matter is still not finalised. Please be very careful of what you post on line.
Because of the constant strained relationship between all of us and the constant court battles I landed in hospital twice being treated for stress and I now have the stress of this court battle.
All of this was not worth what I have gone through.
Don't allow people to get you down and go and see someone professional don't get yourself in HOT WATER as I did.
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Hi all Thank you for your
Hi all
Thank you for your comments.
Firstly I would like to say I did not once mention her name in any of my blogs I always referred to her as the biological mother and secondly her personal information on the legal documents was also removed prior to loading them the photos I loaded was of the little once injuries i.e one occasion the injuries was so bad after she visited her mother that she had to have x-rays done of her head. All injuries was on medical record however I did crop the photos so that no one could see who the child was i.e sun burn load head cropped off, bruised ear posted.
Our matter was heard in font of the magistrate and he wanted to postpone the matter as it was too complex he said.
However we agreed to have the order granted just to finalise the matter so order was granted but all her terms/requests fell away and got changed the warrant of my arrest was issued but is kept with my attorney because based on the history she would use is as a "weapon" against me.
I have cut all ties with her blocked her email addresses with our service proved and changed my number we relocated and our offices are also in the process of relocating to get away from her.
Due to the constant stress she causes in our life I was admitted into hospital twice this year my health is a lot more important to her.
P.S they always say stepmother are evil what they don't tell us is that there is a biological mother making us evil ha ha haa