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Submitted by Crazyness on Thu, 09/29/2011 - 12:30pm

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We got married, she got married a month after us out of nowhere, she wasnt even engaged! We live in a nice neighborhood and she got a house in our neighborhood(about 5 mins from us) I got a black SUV because my sports car was deffenetly not a mommy car (we have a 1 y/o and another one on the way) so she just got an SUV too..a black one lol. The only thing that it seems like she cant copy us about is to have a baby from her husband. She's quite "up there" and I know from SD that they've been trying but not happening. Maybe karma got her for that because she tried to trap my DH with a baby thinking hell marry her and now that she really found her "mr right" she cant have a baby.
Once DD was born I became a stay at home mommy, she quit her job too lol. SD is 8 and goes to school, theres no need for BM to be a SAHM.
Why compete, when will this end? Its pathetic. Hey at least I know one thing that will always bug her and she cant compete about-my age. I am about 16 years younger than her Wink

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Submitted by Soon-to-be-Step... on Thu, 09/29/2011 - 1:09pm

Sounds like the BM is extremely jealous of you! I am sure it kills her that her ex-husband found him a nice young thing. LOL! I am pretty sure our BM bought a silver car because my DH and I both drive silver cars, and I also noticed after I dyed my hair darker she did the same thing.

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Submitted by Crazyness on Thu, 09/29/2011 - 2:25pm

Lol thats funny about the hair. My DH was never married to her thank God! I just fin it funny how a person twice my age tries to compete with me.

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Submitted by Disneyfan on Thu, 09/29/2011 - 1:40pm

Isn't imitation the highest form of a flattery?

There are plenty of women who have secondary infertility issues. It can happen to anyone at any age.

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Submitted by Crazyness on Thu, 09/29/2011 - 2:35pm

True true. Thats another topic. I dont wish that upon anyone but when youre evil and your life goal is try to destroy ur ex and his family you carry negative energy and that is very unhealthy. Maybe if she focus on her family and chill out for once shell get pregnant. Not to metion that she was wishing me to miscarry..

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Submitted by HadEnoughx5 on Thu, 09/29/2011 - 3:00pm

Our BM had difficulty getting pregnant when she was married to my hubby, she was 17 years his junior. Eventually she had three children with him.

Three years ago, she hooked up with another guy. One day I had gone to her house to get things for the kids (they were with me and she was out) I saw meds that were to help with her fertility (she's now in her 40's). She eventually got pregnant with him, I'm sure she told him it was an "oops baby" }:)

This past spring they went to court for BF to get more custody time because she refused to be cooperative :? During the trial they brought up her fertility problems and she said she took meds because my hubby had a thick coating around his sperm and it couldn't penetrate the egg :O

Okay....and that is why he had 2 children with his first wife???? Biggrin

This was all a performance for her SO so she could get around the "Oops" theory Biggrin

I can see if a woman wants to have a child because she has never experienced this in her life. But...when your'e in your 40's and doing it to trap a guy for more money that's just sick :sick:

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Submitted by HadEnoughx5 on Fri, 09/30/2011 - 9:17am

LOL Biggrin My BM tries to copy my handwriting. BM loves to scrutinize everything my hubby and I do. From whatever we do for the skids to what I'm doing at my house decorating etc.

I scrapbook and decided to put books together for the skids. One day, she yells out to the skids, "that'll be a good one for your scrapbook" pretending that she scraps :O Later on the kids started to complain that I scrapbook for them...PAS...makes me sick :sick: