Boyfriends 14 yr old SD might be moving in for the summer
My boyfriend's 14 year old daughter might be staying with him all summer. The biomom sent him a text yesterday morning telling him that she needed to talk to him about keeping her all summer. They have two other younger children, so why does she only want him to keep the 14 yr old? We both wondered why not all three of them.
I really would like for them to come up this summer and stay.
We have always talked about the 14 yr old getting into disagreements with her mother when she is about 16 and wanting to move in with dad. You know, typical teenage girl stuff. We didn't expect something to be happening so soon. We know something is up, just not exactly sure what it is. He asked his daughter if everything was okay and she hesitated at first but said that everything is fine.
Not sure what is going to be expected of me if she ends up staying with him for the summer?
Tread slowly here. 14 year
Tread slowly here. 14 year old girls are a nightmare. She has probably done something at her mom's and mom can't handle it. You won't find out what it is until too late. If you know why, you can at least be on guard for it.
That said, she should live with him for awhile at least. Girls need their fathers to be active in their lives. Read my blogs to see what we have been dealing with. Teenage girls are full of Drama.
This little girl is full of
This little girl is full of drama, believe me. She does really need some discipline for her to grow into a young woman. I hope I can help give her the guidance she needs with the patience that I am sure I will need.