Just over a year ago I joined FaceBook to moniter my teen daughter's acct. Soon I had inlaws I didn't want contact on, family I hadn't seen or talked to in years, school mates I hadn't seen in 30 years. I did connect with some good friends and have had alot of fun with my close friends.

But, the day after Thanksgiving I get a call from my oldest daughter (30) saying her dad called her (he and I have been divorced for 23 years) asking her if I was divorcing my husband and moving back to my home town...all based on a post I made. There was no relation to what I posted and what he asked, he is not even on my FaceBook as a friend. Checked my security and there was no way he could have seen it. Figured it was an old gossipy schoolmate.

I had issues with my family....things I was posting was going back to my Gma, of all people, twisted up to make me look bad.

I said enough, cut my family from my friend's list.....more than half of them I really can't say I even know. I cut all my inlaws from my friend list, I have not had contact with them in years. I cut all my old school mates that I didn't really know from my friend list.

I then got a email from my sister-in-law and her 27 year old daughter asking why, sister-in-law's daughter was saying I hurt her feelings and on and on which really didn't set well with me. I do not ever recall haing a conversation with my husband's neice and she is hurt? Really? she wasn't actively posting on my page. Am I missing something here.

I decided to deactivate my aacount because of all these hassles. Told my husband and without a word he got up and walked out of the room. Okay, so was I supposed to somehow be connecting to his famly thru FaceBook? Ugh!