Ok seen this site and thought that this might just be the place to go. My husband and I just spent our 3 year together, I love him and we do great together. We have joint cust with their mother of the 11 year old twins girls. Over the past 3 years they have stolen, disrespected me and do not listen or go by our rules. I had a house and land that I have worked very hard for and he moved in with his 2 daughters every other week. My 16 yr old daughter does not get along with them and because of their actions no one really wants them there.
My husband and I put them into couseling to assist us wtih their issues and have made some progress....but have since been back, dad feels like progress was good and lol we are done! I have different thoughts. He avoids correcting them at all cost, and when I do they get on their cell phones and call their mom, lie about what has happened and then dad is upset with me. He does not take up for me when mom calls me names or calls my daughter names, he agrees with whatever she says. He tells me he just dont want conflict. I love my husband so very much when they are gone we do great, but recently I have had a difficult time with dealing with him and all he lets happen. I dont agree with all of his choices and I am to the point I just want leave those kids with their mother and see if we can work on our marriage, before we dont have a marriage. Am I being selfish....