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Ex Wife Hanging Out ? WTF?

NewBeginning's picture

Okay - this is an actual story.

This past weekend my SD19 wanted to come down to our house and stay for a couple days. She has a dog that pees on anything that moves and the law here is that NO WAY in hell is that dog welcome here due to her not cleaning up after it.

Background - SD is 19, pregnant, engaged, and currently hangs out with an ex-boyfriend as well..okay?

Onward..

She calls me Thursday night and informs me that she is coming down and the dog is coming..I asked how that happened because her dad is the one saying that the dog will never darken our doorstep.

The kicker?

Her mother is coming down to hang out with the dog..outside of our home. BM's boyfriend was going to check out my SS17's car and BM will be 'hanging' out with the dog outside our home. If the water pump needed replaced and anything else needed done, then the BITCH from hell was going to be hanging out at our home the entire day.

What was my reaction? No way in hell was that happening. When my hubby came home from work I asked what idiot concocted that plan...he acted surprised and called his daughter..a huge fight ensued that lasted until the next day. I have never seen that much drama in my life.

All because SD felt her mother should be able to hang out at our home all day. The same woman that sends text messages, emails, asks my husband to join 3somes..what a real winner! Yea haw!

SD told us both we were insecure and her mother should be welcomed...I had quite a few words back to her as well..

Needless to say....BITCH face never crossed our paths that day. She was NOT welcome and never will be welcome in that kind of capacity.

Now tell me - who in their right mind would feel that their mother should be able to spend the day at their father's and his new wife's house ALL DAY without some sort of issue?

Someone nuts, that's who.

Ah..my SD...gotta love her.

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IslandofDreams's picture

Sounds to me that SD believes that everyone will get along with each other when it benefits her....Wow is she in a fairy land! Does she not understand boundries?? :?
Does she think that everyone is going to all of a sudden start singing kumbaya and hugging?

NewBeginning's picture

You forgot the marshmallows, chocolate, and graham crackers for smores, IOD...lol...that way we can make smores as we hang together...I can't help but think of the ending song in Grease - 'We'll Be Together' as I see the exwife, myself, her boyfriend, and my DH all happy hanging out together.

Maybe my DH and his ex can discuss the details of the 3some she'd like to have??

Or maybe she can compound on the fact she cried on our wedding day 3 months ago?

I don't think the word boundary is even thought of in her lifetime.

LOL...I swear !

pat's picture

:jawdrop: Send her backing. You don't need the drama. She is a ex for a reason.He needs to nip it in the bud BEFORE things happen. Good Luck !

now4teens's picture

Oh, I'd LOVE for BM to show up on my front lawn...only AFTER I rigged it with tons of lawn sprinkles, poised to go off at JUST the right moment...

"OOPSIE! Did I do that? So sorry BM?!"

In all seriousness, it would be a cold day in Hades before BM showed up in my driveway.
SD needs to get a clue.