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emilysma's picture

Okay

My husband and I dropped my d off at college 6 weeks ago. I have not seen her since I did not go down and she did not come home. Last weekend we saw my 2 SD for my husband's bday. I said on the way home next weekend we will take my D to a dinner of her choice. Of course he said ok. my SD are 26 and 23 At dinner on Friday he said oh what time is my D leaving to go back (3 hrs away) I don't know. Is Sunday just for the 2 of you? Now I know something is up. Then 26 SD wants dad to come spend Sunday with her and the SD23 I was fuming. Really We see them every 2 weeks and the one weekend my D is in town you are going to ditch her. I finally said fine (They are finally putting the former wife's ashes in a mouseloeum in 3 weeks. She has been decease for 4 years it just took that long for the cemetery to build )why this weekend why would he even ask. Now my D thinks that she should not come home. I told her that the issue is not her fault. Her room mate thinks that she should not come that is why my husband rushed out of the house today. My d and her room mate both has dad's who give a shit about them. So not my daughter said at lunch well room mate neither of our dads care to be around us why would mom's husband!!!!

sbm014's picture

Why not say screw them, and go see your daughter? I don't know your financial situation but apparently she is worried about your husband more than you...so why not let her know it doesn't matter what Sdad thinks mom wants to see her daughter?