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Submitted by Sellissa on Wed, 01/02/2008 - 9:49pm

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Thanks for all the input, I haven't met the ex because they don't and refuse to meet me and I certainly am not ever going to push it. In fact, I refuse to meet them at this point. But, the fact that my huzzy let it get to this point with all the other excuses and freaking baggage and lies. I know I have to walk away. I know I was just in love with his "idea" of a perfect marriage, I was in love with a memory, of before, I was in love with a Promise of what it could be and was going to be like, execpt, it never was and never will be. Too many freaks and crazies to deal with and the huzzy is spineless. I have to walk away. I know that. Get busy living or get busy dying. I want to get busy living.

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Submitted by BlueberrysBaby on Wed, 01/02/2008 - 10:16pm

I hate to see a marriage end, but I am living proof that someone who hides you from his family and/or his kids doesn't value you as a person, let alone as a wife.

It will not change. Recognizing this early can give you great relief.

If you decide to stay however, you must own that decision and all the grief that will come with it. Read "Living Successfully With Screwed Up People" - can't remember the author. It will help you make this decision.

Blueberry's Baby