holy shit really?!
so my sister has this ex boyfriend who happens to be my daughters 3rd cousin on her dads side. yeah that in its self is weird but anyway. He is trying to start shit between my sister and a new transfer student that is 17 in the 9th grade and on probation. the girl approached my sister last week and tried to fight her and my sister just calmly walked to the office and called her mom to come get her because unless she just stood there and let the girl beat the shit out of her it is an automatic 5 day suspension. well nothing else happend until last night the little bitch sent her a pm on facebook ( I have been monitoring my sisters fb since she lived with me) and i saw the message " I still want to fight you. Make it happen!" so i took my happy ass to the school this morning showed the dean and told him this is your problem your school you fix it or i will. he talked to both the girls and both agreed to just stay clear of each other. now the whole story came out that her ex who is now the ex of a friend of my sis told ex that my sis slept with her brother WTF?! girls brother is like a brother to my sister so i called that mom and told her what was going on and she said i didnt have to worry about her bunch she would handle them. called the ex's grandma and mother and told them they needed to check their boy or i was going to. they said they had it covered. then the dean calls me again and said that he was looking at my sisters grades and asked me if i had seen them, i told him no and he said it wasnt looking good so i now have to convince my mom to put my sister in night school so she can get her GPA up she is in 10th grade or there wont be any worry of college because she will be in highschool until she is 21 the way she is heading. my sister lived with me from 12 to 15 and i never had these problems with her and i feel like i am responsible for her still.
and to top it off i took off work so i could deal with this shit because my mom was too tired. and now im waiting on the baby mama to get her ass out of bed so she can get her son she said she wanted to get him early this morning and she is not responding to DH or myself. im so stressed its not even funny
Why did the grades drop? My
Why did the grades drop? My assumption is because of all this drama? Is she back with mom now?
She is old enough to homeschool by herself all day. She is wasting her time at school. There are lots of programs, some are even free. If she doesn't understand something, there are online tutorials. Kids who grow up homeschooling are good at self-teaching from reading, but that might be an issue for her being in school up til now. I have a teaching degree. After a couple of years of teaching, I couldn't do it anymore. It's a racket LOL. I homeschool my kids now.
she cant home school she isnt
she cant home school she isnt responsible enough and neither is mom. her grades slipped because mom is a friend parent and i just bitched her out and signed her up for night classes to redo some courses and called my dad and had her phone temporarily disconnected. mom lets her have parties and stay out all night and go on shopping sprees any time she wants. when i pick her up from school today shit is going to hit the fan she is not going to be a happy camper }:)
sorry the ex boyfriend of my
sorry the ex boyfriend of my sister is my dd5's 3rd cousin on her dads side
ex boyfriend started dating one of my sisters childhood friends, and somehow it came around that my sister had sex with friends brother which is a lie.
long and short of it is that the boy is instigating problems with my sis and a new student, and during all this since i got involved i found out about her grades and absences.. just a whole lot of crap that i shouldn't have to deal with but my mom wont. I talked to my mom about her moving back in with me and she said no because she doesn't want to lose the 3,000 a month in CS regardless of what is in the best interest of my sister.