I'm sitting here with a hot stomach, as he disresepected me for a third night in a row. She called at 11:30 this time, and this time he told me it was important. She had apparently given her World of Warcraft password to the computer repair shop worker and somebody took it and hacked her account. He had told me he was so tired he could barely keep his eyes open, but he sure jumped up and turned on that computer fast enough and then proceeded to yack with her for 1/2 hour "oh, I can't believe they did this to you." We had been peacefully lying in bed, and he jumped up and attended to that phone call like it was a life-saving procedure. Now I'm playing second fiddle to a video game! He immediately got defensive when he got off the phone, and of course when I told him I was annoyed, he again tried to turn the tables on me "you don't want me to ever speak to her," "you're so jealous." We really SCREAMED at each other, I have never screamed at a guy like that before. He is impossible! I honestly have to say that I miss being his mistress, because I got treated 100% better than this. I am hurting so bad right now because I know where I stand in his life. He sure isn't a niceguy to me anymore - he's a total asshole!

I'm at my wit's end. How do I stand up for myself and not be disrespected at every turn? That was humiliating disrespect and he had some nerve trying to make me feel bad. I told him I'm going to contact my ex and tell him I miss him. This is so stupid! He always thinks he is justified to accept phonecalls from her for any reason. The kids were with us this weekend and they were finally in bed (she has been keeping them up until 11 all summer). This game wasn't important, it could have waited until morning, but no, this is important to him! He is going to lose me because his priorities are messed up. I never thought that this relationship would end up in the dumps like it seems to have.