Incompetence is not sexy (a little OT)
My mother and I were talking about my sister's husband. This man is so clueless about everything. He knows nothing about cars, can't fix anything in their home and is forever making costly financial mistakes. He has no common sense and my sister is always trying to fix what he has done wrong.
I told my mother that one of the reasons I love DH so much is he can handle anything. He is a great handyman, a smart business man and a wonderful father. He has never let his ex call the shots like some I hear about on this site.He doesn't put up with BS from his kids. He treats them with respect and expects the same in return. I really feel like I have a partner in life that can handle anything with grace and dignity. This is a real turn on for me. I feel like the luckiest woman in the world. Incompetence is not sexy! If you can't control your kids, protect your wife from a vengeful ex, or handle other day to day problems, what kind of husband are you? Just my thought for the day.
I think that sometimes about
I think that sometimes about my husband. I mean he is a great handyman (when I can convince him to fix things) but he lets the ex trash me to everyone! She even bumped into one of our neighbors at the grocery store and told her "DH needs to put his wife on a leash"...and I asked him to say something to her and he refused. He said "If I dont care if people say mean things about me, why would I care if they say them about you?". I would never let my DDs biodad say anything negative about my DH! Some men are just clueless but glad to hear that they aren't all like that! You're one of the lucky ones
My SO has, on several
My SO has, on several occasions, offered to... damage my XH after a bout of his douchebaggery lol. Of course I would never take him up on it, but it makes me feel good that he has my back
Of course he is a lousy handyman, can't change his own oil, and lacks other manly skills, but luckily I have them