My Husband is Driving Me Nuts!
Finally there is peace in my home! SD that has drug, alcohol and other issues went home to BM today.
Now my husband is walking around all depressed and sad. I get it it's his kid; however all I've heard since Oct 1 of last year is something about this kid, all the time. He has other kids he rare talks about.
I can't stand to hear anymore about this selfish, manipulative, lying, drug abusing, rebellious, lazy girl. She will be 18 in next month and he continues to act as though she is a child. Yet she does adult things serious adult things that have given her markers for life (STDs). Mom let her run wild.... at 13.
I told him today he needs counseling to talk about her and all his issues that I can't offer any advice or direction because I've never heard of or experienced anything like this girl. Plus IDK abd don't want to get any F---- more (said to myself).
See my other post for recent crap involving her.
I absolutely cannot stand this girl ...
I would send him to a counselor
you are his spouse, not his emotional dumpster.
Its sad that she was allowed to develop into the toxic person that she is. There might be hope for her or not, its not your problem anymore, shes an adult. And he has other children he should focus on.
yes i would try and get him
yes i would try and get him to a counselor. His feelings of guilt may come from the fact he is actually relieved that she is gone and he feels terrible for feeling that way. either way , its not safe to have her around and she needs to help herself,, unfortunetaly she will only be beginning this destructive life and it will be many many years before she even looks like pulling out of it , if ever. My estranged sister was the same,, the day she started high school , the drugs , stealing , manipulating , unprotected sex began ,, she is now 53 been in and out of rehabs / pshyc wards etc , she now has drug induced schizophrenia from decades of methanphetime abuse and she still contiously needs help from my parents. My parents are great people but enabled her throughout all the years by giving in to her demands and cleaning up her trail of mess ,,, it got her nowehere and your DH will end up with the same result with his daughter if he continues to enable bad habits and brush stuff under the carpet! goodluck