This morning my partner went to collect his daughter from his ex-wife's house and took our own son and daughter along for the ride so I could get a couple of jobs done. Later on he casually dropped into conversation that his ex-wife had filmed MY children playing in her garden. My partner clearly did not see any harm in this and did not ask her to stop. I however, found this INCREDIBLY weird. I cannot understand why she would want a home video of mine and her ex-husband's children. I was very cross with my partner for allowing this to happen but he did not see what the big deal was. I feel very uncomfortable about this but am wondering if I am just over-reacting. May I also mention that this woman hates me and has carried a very bitter grudge against me for the past eleven years that I have been with her ex-husband. We have no relationship whatsoever and do not even speak on the telephone regarding arrangements or anything.

Any thoughts would be really appreciated :? .