The news nobody wants to hear...
Yeah, my DH dropped this bomb on me this weekend, his ex is pregnant! She says that she had a tubal and just doesn't know how it happened!! Well, here is the worse part: she says that she doesn't want my SD to live with her anymore, and that she needs to live with us. my DH's ex already has a 5 year old with her new H and my SD HATES her and all they do is fight; and mean physically fight. I guess she doesn't want to go thru that with her new baby...which can I just say is one of the reasons I don't really want to have a baby with my DH. I know that my SD would freak out and lash out! My DH just can't see that. She is such a wonderful child, she must be egged on is what he says! Even when her sister was like a month old she hated her, how does a 1 month old egg someone on!!!! I don't know what is going to go on; I really don't know if I can take her living with us full time. I think this may be the stick that breaks the camel's back :(.
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oh yea
It is possible. I have an ex SIL that had a tubal. 18 years later she got pregnant. Whats is even better than that is 2 years after THAT she got pregnant AGAIN! I told her to go have a hysterectomy this time! LOL!
Nothing comes easy thats worth fighting for.....thats what they tell me!
She is so dumb that I think
She is so dumb that I think that she didn't actually have it done anyway! I want to know if she is going to be willing to go back to court because my DH pays child support. You can believe me, I will make it known that there will be no more of that going on. I don't even think my DH has thought of that. He is just on cloud nine because his wonderful daughter is going to be living with us. Gag me!!
Oh yes
Its possible. My cousin had a tubal after her third child. What makes the whole situation funny is that she only has one ovary. So it was funny when she got pregnant with baby #3. Now that she has had a tubal and baby #3 is four going on five and she is pregnant again is just too funny for words. We call her fertile Myrtle.
Stupidity is an equal opportunity condition.
EX hide ALL
My DH ex has been pregnant and hiding it all along , Tell in sd and ss they are no tto bring it up AT ALL ,. What every happened to caring about THE KIDS . His kids are soooo FU that is is sad to watch , They play the pitting game trying to get attention buy lying and making me out to be evil SM UGH I wish some one could GROW UP HERE
crazy
I think it's all crazy.lol btw Mustang.
Can't BM control her kids then? SD might be jealous and in a way that's understandable, but I mean the kids fighting? Or is SD running the show, tantrums and as you say if you had a child she might do the same.Can't go on,boundaries need to be set.Maybe the new child will eventually fight with the 5 year old,it's all mad.
I guess BM would still have SD visit,please don't say no! She will still have to control all her kids then.
That's just it, she has no
That's just it, she has no control of her children. When my SD needs to be yelled at or disciplined, who does her BM call? My DH! Then he has to get in the middle of the fights on the phone. It is so stupid. I still haven't heard anything from last week though. I guess it will all be dropped this weekend. I think my DH's ex doesn't want to tell us anything about what is happening, keeps her in control. Can't wait, my SD is going to freak out!! God, I am dreading if she starts to live with us full time. No more time for me, I can already see that. This sucks!
What is she thinking?
If SD is upset about the prospect of a new baby...its because she's afraid of being replaced. I don't see, psychologically, how BM is doing anything but severe damage to SD by saying to SD, "I'm having a new baby therefore I'm sending you away."
Very scary
I found this on the internet. I had my remaining tube tied after the baby. No one ever told me this was possible. Thank God in 10 years I will be 50, so I think I am safe.
A recent study has estimated that 143 women in 10,000 get pregnant after a tubal ligation, making the percentage about 1.43% which is better coverage than you’ll likely get from other forms of birth control because of the human error. In these rare cases, the fallopian tubes often grow back together, allowing the egg to come down and be fertilized and then move into the uterus. Many of these pregnancies actually turn out to be ectopic pregnancies because of the damage done to the tube during a tubal ligation.
Ten years after a tubal ligation, the rate of pregnancy actually goes up slightly. The percentage of women that get pregnant after 10 years rises to 1.85%. This is an average, and you’ll find that most women do not get pregnant even after 10, 20, or even 30 years. Again, pregnancy after tubal ligation is rare.
Yee Ha!
I got the best news ever last night! She is NOT pregnant!!!! I don't even know why she told my husband in the 1st place, probably just to get him worked up. I don't care, she not pregnant!!!!
My DH is really isn't as happy as me because he wanted her to live with us. I don't think he really gets how this would have changed his life. He has this hobby that takes up 95% of his life. Take for instance this week...not one night was he home and he gets home at like 2 in the morning. What would he have done with his daughter I asked him; he tells me that he would just take her with him. I say that is ridiculous because he gets home so late and she has school. I know how it would end up, I would end up watching her every night and he would go and work on his hobby (I can't say what it is b/c I am pretty sure if I say what it is and someone read this they would know who I am in a second). I am so happy and relieved!!