my husband has broken yet one more of our "marraige rule" things we have agreed that we would not do .The situation is that he has borrewed money from his parents to buy a motercycle.I'm not bragging but they are kinda well off so when we had gotten married and bought our home we turned to them for help with the down payment we got turned down the first time after they looked at the specs on the home not the actual home (they live in a different state than us) then we turned around and did it again exact same situation happened so right then and there we decided together to never ask for their help again so what does he do ask for their help again on the bike we talked about him getting it and I am o.k. with it we can afford the payments it's just the down payment that he is borrowing that I am not o.k. with and buy the way he didn't tell me about it till after he asked them.I kinda feel bad I know that he wants this really bad but this is not the first time he has broken one of our "rules" I posted a couple of days ago about the disrespectful 20 year old and that is still a fresh open wound then he turns around and does this OMG AM I JUST A ROTTEN WIFE for feeling this way should I tell him it's o.k. (HE WANTS THIS BAD) or do I just come to the conclusion that he is just to wishy washy to even make a decision.Some one PLEASE give me some advice