Opinions please?!
Hi, my name is MENTALLY INSANE. Whats yours?
I need to vent so bad right now and youre going to listen.
Pretty sure I wanna go home. Im homesick, I hate my step child bc hes a spoiled rotten manipulating monster! I wish I were making these next stories up.
Where do I begin? He twolks lwike a baby and geta him way. ^sounds like that^. He throwa fits to get his way. He tella gabbi I call him swear worda, when as much as I wanna I NEVER have. He tells me to go home to america if I discipline him. What else?! He intentionally picks fights with his cousins to get them in trouble, hes 5 and cant count to 20 & can hardly do his ABC's. Hes 5 and has a 32in tv in his room, a wii, a nintendo ds and a ps2. A cell phone. And gets mc dwonolds(what he calls it) whenever he wants! Did I mention he has randoms bursts of screaming noises? Like somebody with a mental disBility? Or somebody with touretts.
I told gabbi lastnight, bc we are going to pay for my residency visa today, that if she is serious about me staying then she needs to control her child. I also told her that im not going to help parent him bc when I do, she doesnt make him listen. So she can have the choice. Im either doing no parenting, or putting my 100% part in. not just 50% and I told her to stoo spoiling him bc its gonna make him evil.
She said to me "why do I have to sacrifice everything, what have you done?" My instang reply"fuck off bc what country am I in and where is my family? I gave up my blood for you and I moved here for you and you let,your son and family walk all over me and im suppose to 'get used' to it and 'sacrifice' something" fucking wow. So,i told her to buy me a plane ticket home if shes not ready to sacrifice something for our marriage.
Opinions??
Wow, good for you for
Wow, good for you for standing up to her. And what does she mean sacrifice? You mean trying to raise your child to not be a leech on society and actually be a fully functioning and respectable adult is sacrificing?
Wow. She's got her noodles in a bundle.
She meant my sanity and
She meant my sanity and parenting him like show she does
Right on. Keep to your word,
Right on. Keep to your word, start packing your shit to show her you're for real. If she does nothing, keep packing and move on. You're WAY too young to be throwing your own happiness down the drain, you have a lot of happy living left to do.....with someone else.
Yea I felt good. Yeaterday he
Yea I felt good. Yeaterday he looked me right in the eye and lied, bc he opened all the poplscicles to see the colors and put them back in the freezer and I asked if he did it and she still gave him ice cream and said thats naughty
Pack your stuff, buy your own
Pack your stuff, buy your own ticket and go home.
If you can't buy it yourself, borrow the money from a family member or friend.
Why do you want her to buy your ticket?
I dont want or need her too.
I dont want or need her too. I just said it to her to show her im done taking her shit
If you say it, but don't mean
If you say it, but don't mean it, she will never change.
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And I agree, but if she
And I agree, but if she doesnt change ill but my own ticket. I packeed my bags last night. This morning shes being waaay different
wow. I kinda know how you
wow. I kinda know how you feel. especially when it comes to the talking. SS6 and SD4 say "buh buh dee" for Burger King, "cho cho meee" for chocolate milk. "door" for their papaw George. I kinda think they really do have mental problems. SS6 can't count 20 either.
I put a stop to the spoiling at our house. It ended up with them being in trouble most of the time they are here because they think they can get their way if they act up. but hellz no!!! instead they get to sit. in the corner. and when they don't want to do that or listen, they lose toys until they calm down and finally decide it's time to listen. oh. and SS6 lost all gaming systems. you just have to get his mom to see what she is doing wrong by spoiling him. that's the hard part. but if she's gonna be in your life, you have to cooperate when it comes to raising a kid. even if its not both of yours
I have cooperated a lot. Id
I have cooperated a lot. Id never ever ever ever EVER let my child snack all day on chips and cookiea like she lets him, but its her kid so I dont say anything. The only time I usually speak up is when hes screaming at her so bad that the vein in his dead comes out. That when I tell him to settle.. I used to make him eat all his dinner before he can have a snack and now I let him get by with eating most of it..
Whats another way to cooperate. Im open to anything. I want us to work, just cant handle the shit