Oh my Gosh, I would be livid. How very unsupportive of your husband, especially considering what you are doing (putting your life at risk and thank you, for that).

I'm sorry that he is being an ass.

I would be furious and make him feel guilty as hell for not making my homecoming as comfortable as possible.  Thank you for what you are doing.  Please know that people all over the country consider you and your co-workers to be heroes!

One of our neighbors is a nurse here. Her husband is also working from home. But when she gets home all the things are ready for her for her to clean-up and her husband washes her clothes from work, and cleans, and makes dinner, and does some of his stuff. BUT, mostly he makes sure she's doing okay.

Does he realize that if he doesn't do all the cleaning and such that you, the person exposed daily, will do it and probably expose your household to more of the virus?

Your dh (not dear husband, d!ck head) is a freaking selfish jerk. True colors showing. 

No freaking way you should have to be dealing with his feral kid's piss on the floor (not now, not ever)! That you have not completely lost your sh!t speaks volumes to how exhausted I know you are. 

When this virus has subsided, I think you should take some time to think about this. And how much housework you have to do compared to him/his kid even when times are "good". How much more are you doing than if you were single? Your life should not be more difficult when you are married. 

The beginning of the end with my exH was when he announced to me that He Does Not Clean Toilets. I looked around the room to see who else might be living there that would. I didn't see anybody, so I said that I, also, Do Not Clean Toilets. He lost his sh!t.

Anyway, tell him how you feel. Is he just dense and doesn't get how much you need his support? You should never have to clean up after SS anyway. (Gross.)

And, you can tell him you are just too tired and worn down to cook, do laundry, whatever it is. He can make a sandwich if he wants to eat. Would be extra nice if he made one for you too.

My gosh, you are putting your life on the line. I'd cook you a meal if I could.

For all your hard work. I cant imagine coming home from hellish conditions is much better, considering you said Feral SS.

Have a chat with hubby, rain holy heck on him do a crazy dance. He needs to wake up to the reality that you need him to help out, not help himself.

How can he be so tone deaf to your situation? You're on the frontline working your ass off. This is unacceptable. Better to be alone.

First, thanks for your service as a medical professional during this national crisis.

Now, I call BS on your DH.  My wife is working full time. I am between careers.  She is a CPA and working 70+ hours per week for the foreseeable future due to the extension of tax season, the SBA loan program expansion and the financial information compilation requirements for the stimulus program.  She has mostly worked from home for the past few weeks but does spend as many as a few days a week at the office.

I cook, I clean, I shop (once every 10 days of so) and I do just about all of the domestic work.  Except her laundry.  I leave that to her since she does not like how I do laundry and her lady garments are not a fan of my get-r-done laundry methods.

Time for DH to step up.  I would sit him down and break down for him the time it would take for him to do the chores you have asked him to do then outline the hours it took to set up his man cave, build the fence, etc....

Tolerate nothing less than him stepping up or... he can do it all once you get home under the painful over site of the evil hairy eyeball you will keep on him.

His choice. Get it done, or suffer.

Thanks again for your work.