Well, it was only a matter of time. SS has to move out from the unit he shares with his mummy. Has sent DH email on an apartment (for us to buy as an investment and he live in it!!!!!!!) Now he has found a rental property and DH has offered to help him out with the bond. SS cried poor - got no furniture, needs bond and two weeks rent - DH has given in again.

So much for letting the kids make there own way in life and let us save for our future retirement.

And I am not allowed to help my kids when they ask!!!!!

Three kids each, and they are all grown up - and SS, that he wants to help, was the one that went bankrupt!

I wish I could let things go and not let it worry me. Is there anyone out there with things like this happening to them.

Oh and by the way, DH hasn't told me anything about it yet - no discussing that we will be using OUR money to help SS!