Well, it has been a while since I was here, but we have had major drama and I needed to vent.

We have been having huge problems with SS6 acting out against me, being physically violent with me, and even his father at times, and blaming everything he does on my DS8. (Literally everything is my DS's fault according to SS6, no matter how impossible it was for him to have done it) We had a feeling, because of the words he was using, that BM put him up to the behaviors. Usually it would go something.like this: SS6 goes to visit Lazy McCrazy, the next day she calls DH to tell him what is "bothering" their son, SS6 comes home from visitation spouting his mother's words verbatim and acting out like crazy. In all of these situations SS6 had not once, ever expressed these thoughts or actions prior to his mother announcing they were a problem.

Well, we had an incident where SS6 bit me, badly enough to bruise my hand, and DH sat him down to talk to him (DH's favorite thing to do, since discipline isn't his strong point) and at some point during the talk SS6 blurts out "But daddy, I have to be mean to Auberry, mommy says if I can be mean enough to her, then she will leave and it will be just you and me and mommy again" DH called BM and she basically owned the statement, brazen hussy that she is. She told DH how SS6's bad behaviors are all his fault because he kicked her out and then had the nerve to end up moving on and marrying someone else.

I was flabbergasted. Who in their right mind does things like this to their own child? I suppose my answer is in the above sentence, because Lazy McCrazy is never in her right mind. The only reason she gets visitation is because Texas is a mom state. It makes me sick, to think that a mother would mess with a kid's mind like this.

She never even wants to see SS6, she spends most of her time coming up with excuses NOT to see him. She is always too sick or too tired or too poor to have him at her house. She never comes to school functions, never comes to ball games, nothing. All she wants is for DH to let her move back in so she won't have to do what little bit of work she does now to survive and she can go back to neglecting SS6 full time.