I have TOTALLY gone above and beyond trying to make the skids happy and feel included. So after calling my DH and telling him that they will never talk to him again unless he divorces me (this isn't the first time either), that they hope he enjoys his new family because they want nothing to do with us, and having complete tantrums and calling me all kinds of names to DH's family, the skids spent some time with DH in their town at the house he is working on and asked "when do we get to come down to your house next?". Ummmmmmm....never hopefully? They like it here because we have a huge house, with their own rooms (which I have redecorated in my taste since this all went down), they each have a TV, Wii, and Xbox in their rooms with access to all the latest movies, tons of their favorite foods, a hot tub, and I spend all of my time while they are here cleaning up after them. I put a trash can in the boys room and they still can't be bothered to put their candy wrappers in it. No, you little brats, I realize that your house with BM is small, dirty, she spends most of her time screaming at you and she feeds you crap from the food bank instead of getting a real job, but you don't get to treat me like dirt and then come over here for a vacation from her. If BM is so wonderful, you can get your fill of her over the next year.