Long story short BM was trying to raise support bc SD17 has not been spending overnights, just visits. We have different rules at our house so SD17 rather take advantage of a later curfew and BM supplying alcohol for her and friends when she is at BM's house. BM has told SD and DH that SD doesn't have to come to our house if she doesn't want to because she is over 14.

Husband just finished his appointment with county prosecutor this is what he had to say in a nut shell

His office will allow my DH to take the parenting time credit for the days that are outlined in the current CO. BM will have to modify the CO in order to take the credit away. That being said child support may go up or down but the outcome of the new CS order will not be because you haven't had overnights. Our office handles child support and not child custody if there is a need for your parenting time to be adjusted it will need to be handled in the courts not here.

*I have to think it helped sway the prosecutor's judgement that my DH took in pictures of alcohol in SD's room at BM's house and pictures from FB of SD's parties where alcohol is served showing rules are different in our home and that