I am going crazy everytime I think my husband and I are doing great something else happens. I was pissed he missed my nieces birthday party to go hunting but he is a hunter I knew that. Then I get home and we are snuggling and he says to me that his sons BM is going to get their son who is 4 a puppy. Why did this piss me off, because it did. We have a dog that is hers that she did not take, another dog she got was hit by a car, then another one she claims bit her so she gave it away and now she wants another one. Last month my SS was sent home from head start because the teachers thought he had chicken pox, but he had a LOT of flea bites from her house, she has a cat. She said she had to flea bomb her trailer twice, and now she wants a dog she cant even take care of what she has now. She is saving for a house because we just built a house, she did not put her son on her insurance when she could have to save money, she pays for child health plus, mind you my husband pay 600 a month in CS and they have split custody and split placement my SS goes back and forth every 3 days and he still has to pay that much. She said she didnt want to pay the extra 70 a month for him to have insurance even thought in court papers it states when resonable either parent should get insurance right away, it would only cost her 200 a month for family, it will cost us 400 but we are going to do it, I just married my husband in OCT. so it takes a little bit to get the insurance issue out of the way, it is a lot of money but insurance is IMPORTANT, I cant believe she didnt get him on hers in June when it was affordable. She wont call our new house because it is long distance even thought my husband pays 600 a month she says she is saving for a new house. Why do I care, WHy do I let all of this get to me, I think it is because I do not want her to have anything nice, she has tried 4 times to get me fired, I have had to have her arrested for threatening to kill me and then breaking the order of protection, I am a teacher I cant have her saying I broke confidentiality laws, she has called DSS on me tring to get our foster daughter removed. I hate her for all she has done and they she talks to my husband like they are buddies, he tries to get their son and leave on pick up days but she is always saying something, I just want to SCREAM, how do I let go and not let her bother me, I am sick of fighting with my husband about her, I truly believe he is doing the best he can and has his sons best interest at mind. He only is friendly to keep face infront of their son, he never wants to argue with her, why do I care if she wants a dog or a house. I just want to let go, they go to court in DEc. for full custody, HELP, HELP, HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!