Confronted stepdaughter about she must say hello when coming into our home to me. Also at a family function her description of me to an eight-year-old grandchild was that I'm a clown. SD says I was just joking.
I informed her that it was unacceptable in both cases.

So today I get a text that I'm interfering with her relationship with her mom. And that when I called her angry I did not want to resolve anything. There was nothing to resolve either say hello or don't come over she doesn't get it.

So I did not text her back I immediately showed it to her mother. She said don't answer her. Also said im 65 years old I'm tired of this. I have been around SD since she was 17 she is now 42 and nothing has changed. I am f..kin done.

So when the whole family was here visiting from out of town as well as SD just went to my room and watched TV. I will no longer subject myself to the treatment. SD even said I haven't done anything for her or her son. I think that's her father's issue not mine.

Wife feels guilty that birth father walked away so she's been trying to make up for this her whole life but I'm done.

The other SD who is 40 treated her son who is now 22 like he was my own she remarried and now has an eight-year-old daughter. When she was born she called me and said what are you going to do for her like you did for my son. I must be crazy f.kin crazy. That they feel like they can speak to me in this way can we say disengagement.