So dh's daughter sends him a text saying she will only communicate through text.......no speaking to him. She must have rethought it........hey, if we are thinking of emancipation, so must they. They are something else. Dh is inclined to do nothing at this point. Commenting on her behavior will be turned around as harassment. I was reading last night on borderline personality coming from narcissist mothers and it fits them to a tee. So I guess dh will continue to pay and when he gets hit for grad school, we fight tooth and nail, but it will cost big bucks.