Hi ladies! I am new to this site but I ran across it and would love some honest opinions on my situation. I have been with my current live in Boyfriend for over two years. I'm 5 years younger than him and have never been married and don't have children. I have never wanted to date anyone with kids or who has been married. He is divorced and when we started dating he had a young son. Things got more serious than I had expected. So a year after we had been together we find out he has a baby by his ex. So now he has TWO young children by two different women. A situation I never in my life imaged me being in, nor did I want to be in, but I stayed because I loved/love him. Fast toward to now, 2 years after our relationship began. I love him, love his youngest like she is my own, but his oldest child gets on my nerves!!! I feel like when he does something wrong or bad I don't have the authority to make him stop. I try to tell him not to do things, or to do something, and he won't listen until his dad tells him. He can be such a brat and some weekends I dread him coming over. I know I shouldn't feel that way but I can't help it. Also, when his youngest is over to our house I have to play mom and I feel like I take care of her more than he does. I change her diapers, put her down for naps, put her to bed, feed her.. I don't mind but I want my OWN children. He says when we get married we will have our own but I don't know if he is just telling me that knowing I'm young and want my own, or what. But how many more kids could he even be able to financially support?! Aside from that, do I really want to deal with two of his exes for the rest of my life? Along with two children who I'm sure will get bratty? Everyone says it will only get worse which scares me. I already get annoyed at the fact that the older kid always talks about his mom. It's just annoying to me. Maybe that is just me being immature and selfish but I can't help it. I would love nothing more than to marry someone who has never been married, doesn't have any children, so we can experience all that together and it be both our first time... but i guess you cant help who you fall for right. He is a great guy and an awesome father but i kind of feel like I'm settling since i would prefer not to date someone with baggage like his..So I would love some input if anyone else has been in a situation similar!! Thanks!!