Last weekend was great. Thursday night all the way to Tuesday morning was really good. It was BMs weekend with SS. DH and I spent the entire weekend hangin out with neighbors and the kids. We didn't fight, we had very constructive conversations..it was great! BAM Tuesday night hits with SS overnight and DH and I have been disagreeing/agruing ever since. Why does this always happen? SS was here tonight and this is our weekend with him and I just KNOW DH and I are going to fight. I don't understand what the difference is from SS week/weekend to SS just here during the week. Now, there is alot going on around here as my DD behavior is getting worse and our DS1 has been sick and suffering from hives for almost a month. But what I felt we could have calmly discussed a few days ago is now huge arguements followed by insults and bitterness. Whenever DH gives me crap about not "loving" SS, I tell him it is his fault. HE makes it this way. HE becomes a different person when he is here. I'm bracing myself for a looooooooong, tiresome weekend. SS goes away for a week with his BM soon. I know DH misses him when he is gone and for that, I do feel sad for DH but it will be nice to have all that time not arguing with DH. Now, if I could just fix DD behavior maybe even more tension would be eliminated but we are still seeking a solution for that one Sometimes I feel it's very hard to NOT resent the entire situation and be sad for the lack of knowledge I had when I entered this relationship. Ohh well, DH still is barely talking to me so here's to another lonely night of stewing before my long weekend begins lol