I have a tyrant SS and I dont like him much but I do love him, hes spoiled and takes no responsibility for anyting and his dad lets him. I think is from years of being in prison and his son in foster care, he has that syndome of guilt. So I have 2 girls of my own 12 and 13 going on 14, the problem with this is they are watching his behavior as well and I see them trying to do what he does with his father. I dont play that, so we dont get along as he is disrespectful and has no cares in the world at age 22, he spends his money on junk food and eats all our food as well. His youngest brother who now lives with us he is 16 is now disrespectful, sneaky and is acting like him as well. He is very disturbing to the other kids when they are trying to do homework, chores etc. Try to addrss any issues, he makes it seem as if Im picking on him. The other issue is his grandmother(Husbands mother)whom is very negative and judgmental first, I think shes a narcissist she is unemployed currently and my step son is paying her bills, which is nice but she also comes to my home and try to run my home as she pleases. She will just come by and do things without asking us if we want it done. Example- added items to my front garden as if to say it looks tacky, we werent moving fast enough for her. She even brings food she likes to cook for us to cook and items that I dont even use in my home as I am very heath concious. I am thankful but there is so much that I see is disrespectful and no consequences for actions. This is just the last 6 months, after moving back here from Florida its as if I can see all of the issues I was afraid to talk about before. I can add more detail but this is what ive got this morning. Am I crazy?