My husband and I have been married for a year. I have a 5 year old son from a previous marriage and we have just had our first son together seven months ago. My husband also has a 4 year old son.
I despise my husbands "baby momma", for lack of a better word, for numberous reasons and I can't even stand to even hear her name anymore. She is the worse kind of person. First of all she takes advantage of my husband and treats him like trash. She even takes advantage of me. They split because she cheated on him probably 25 times and i was his best friend... there to pick up the peices. Anyway,for example, she has claimed his son for the past 3 years on her taxes and says shes doing it again this year because she has no money...and my husband said ok. She makes probably 3x the money we do yet 3 days ago she got evicted from her house and last week my step son got kicked out of daycare for non payment. All because she would rather support her lortab problem instead. She is 8 months pregnant and taking between 10-15 lortabs a day...unprescribed. And yes, my husband has paid child support since they split. So now she's being greedy and claiming him on taxes AGAIN because shes broke....humm...
Another reason why i can't seem to get along with her is because she is constantly trying to get me and my husband to divorice. She drives by our house, texts him and asks him whos at our house when hes at work. She refuses anymore to let his son be here with me when he goes to work. She says "watch this, see how much John loves you now..." she claims its always MY fault when she wont let him come. I guess in hopes he'll get rid of me, which is exactly what she wants. Me gone, so she can walk all over him like a doormat. And she ALWAYS comes back with "its funny how jealous you are of my life and my relationship with "(my husband). Me? Jealous of her? I have two kids, a husband, a house, a job, a dog. I have a great life. She has...a messed up baby shes pregnant with, a cheating boyfriend that conceived a child when they were together, no house, no daycare... just a pill addiction..and I am jealous??
The last main reason i despise her is to get me to just give up and leave my husband just so i wouldnt have to deal with her shit anymore is...she called cps on me. Told them my husband was abusing me and my son and everything else. No biggie, nothing happened with it of course but just the thought. ANYONE who messes with my kids or tries to get them taken from me... HELL NO. She is ruining my freaking life!
Anyway, I just despise her so much i cant even look at her. And her son.l Everytime hes at my house... I see her and I just cant get around it. I hate how she raises him i hate how he acts when hes with her. He'll act ok when hes at our house but the second he gets back with his mom (I've witnessed him do it) he'll do something crazy. Like pull his pants down and show all the cars his butt, hit is grandma, not listen when she (barely) tells him to stop...
She just doesnt give a shit how he turns out and says he cant come over without my husband home and I have no business telling my step son what to do. I'm sorry but if he's gonna grow up with my kids, he will act right. I just dont know what to do. Like I said I absolutely HATE the girl, as does my husband. I just dont know how to accept my step son when everytime i see him.. i see her. someone i hate. I just want to try and x her out of my life and accept my step son... I just dont know how and im, afraid i never will.