My partner had 2 boys from a previous relationship and he has shared custody for them. we have them round at the moment for 9 nights and its been awful... it has actually resulted in me hiding in my room with my new daughter who is 10 weeks old just to get away with them. the eldest is 9 and doesn't listen to anything he is told and wont leave my little one alone it fraustrates me. Also it doesn't help that im ill with a cold and upset stomach too. they keep coming up to see me too which people could think is sweet but I wish they could just leave. I feel like our family is split when they come round cause my partner obiously wants to spend time with them but I don't and I don't want my little one played like a toy... I love my partner but I cant stand his kids so spoilt and rude... anyone else feel the same?