Okay, a little back story. I have been apart of my now step sons life since he was two now he is 6.5. I feel like my voice gets lost in how I’m feeling and whenever I vent to my husband about it he says to just ignore her. The issues are this. She claims my husband is alienating her saying she never receives paperwork from child’s school, saying I can’t take him to dentist appointments(which I never have) but in pervious emails she asked my husband if I could take him to the appointment since she couldn’t nor could her mom. She accused my husband of not sending her sons report card to her, but two months prior I checked step sons backpack I attached my husband and his ex in a text taking a picture of the report card and saying in case you wanted to see this before you picked him up(we still have this text for proof). The next day my husband gave her the report card, she looked over it and said thank you. My husband asked ex if I could see step son for my birthday and do something all together for a couple hours. She agreed, but yet randomly texted him two weeks later saying she never got h on her birthday. We have emails and texts that day as well on her social media account she went out with her mom and left her sons practice early to go home and hang out with now fiancée for the rest of the night as well as she worked that day. Today when he finally showed up to my daughters practice they were there for 5 mins. I go is that chocolate ice cream on your face and he said yes then I asked him when he got the ice cream after school, he looked at his mom and flat out lies to me and goes it’s not ice cream. My step son says to my husband that his mom and grandma always ask him questions about our house what I say or what his dad says to him and he says he has to answer them before he can play. I hate the position he is in. He is the CHILD! But yet the mother and grandmother manipulate his mind it’s heartbreaking. When my step son is with his mom he won’t greet me now he ignores me but yet at our house he says he misses me and wants to do more things with me and him by ourselves.