What has been seen cannot be unseen!

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Holy moly! Just got through going through 12 year old ss phone. (That job tends to fall on me since neither BM or DH are good at monitoring online activity) SS recently got a hand-me down phone from BM's husband and there are still left over pictures/ texts that for some reason were not erased. So, much to my surprise/ shock/ horror, I find up close and personal pictures of BM's nether regions! They're saved in the SD's album. How in the hell do I even begin to address this??? SS has had the phone for a few months, so I'm sure he's seen them. I get along with BM surprisingly well. My husband will have a complete shit fit, as he should. Do I call and talk to her woman to woman or do I just hand it over to DH?

Wow. Depends on your

Wow. Depends on your relationship with her. DH definitely will need to address this with SS - father to son. It may be worth a mention to BM that these were found (maybe just imply and don't leave specifics) and that perhaps they should be more careful with their digital media :jawdrop:

Yikes! I'm not sure how

Yikes! :jawdrop:

I'm not sure how closely you were looking, but perhaps SS isn't aware of what he saw, if he saw them? I don't know, that may just be my "hope for the best" attitude.

Good luck, and hopefully it's not as bad as it really seems...