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Strongly competitive decision from Parents - Worst Situation

AlisonMendel's picture
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Hey There I'm from India
I'm hiding my name and other Personal identifying information for privacy issues.
Considering you're aware of social culture of India. There is Strong competitive arguments
and decisions from my parents (Real one) on some issue. This time situations is getting worst (as they mostly are
not on same page on most of issues). This is issue is my elder sister's marriage. My Mother supports her daughter's choice but Father is saying that boy is not good (his search - he got this information from many peoples and as well as he is at well informed post in city). Both stood strongly against each other. father got it seriously and now he is taking blood pressure controlling medicines. Condition by health is not good also for my mother. I have no issues with both of cases.
but what I desire is good health and relation of my parents I love both. Please suggest me a good solution.

AlisonMendel's picture

No Its Cover Name
Yes, It is important for me. and It affect me indirectly. I want to get your analysis who is right mother or father?

twoviewpoints's picture

You tell your parents that you respect whatever it is that they decide together. You can not make nor help them make the decision. It is their roles as parents to carefully make the decisions.

Do not put yourself into the middle of their unsettledness. Tell them you are concerned for their own health and wellbeing and that your concern is for them.

Why are you here and how did you find this site?

hereiam's picture

Considering you're aware of social culture of India.

My awareness of social culture of India is limited to what I have learned watching "The Big Bang Theory".

Aniki-Moderator's picture

Love me some Big Bang!!

So...doesn't that mean Dad is always right and Mom has to go along with what Dad wants?

Acratopotes's picture

It's your elder sisters life, not yours...

sorry but stay out of it, it's between your parents, you have to remain Switzerland in this issue.