I feel like a horrible person every time my stepchildren are mentioned because of the thoughts I have of them. They are both girls, ages 6 and 7. The oldest one has a crappy attitude about most things, tells my girls (ages 14, 9, and 5) that she does everything "better than you", no matter what it is. She refuses to use manners and does not do a thing I say!!! The 6 year old is getting a little better. She used to be a very physical child, hitting my daughters, kicking them in the stomach, etc. She still has a problem with wanting to leave when she doesnt get her way, not listening to me and telling my girls that she too "does everything better." It's like these kids have no social skills whatsoever! No wonder they never talk about their friends - they probably do not have any!!!

I just want to hide in my bed when they are there....
What do I do???