Husband
Will hubby always be a YES man to the bio mum?
Will he always do everything she wants an use the
Excuse it's to see his kids which I can understand when
They were younger but now only 1 lives with bio. Will
Hubby ever care about my feelings an ask my opinion
instead of doing everything bio mum says I actually told him
This morning if I knew what I do now I would have told
Him to go back to bio mum years ago an never got involved
That way they could have raise their kids together an I wouldn't
Be the one everyone likes to blame. He said he would never of
Gone back to her anyway. Will he always care more about her then me?
As they have kids an we can't have any together? It feels like
I have married him an her an she will always stick her nose into our life. When sd are here
We can't even talk about any plans or anything we are doing otherwise
Step kids race back to bio an tell her. Our house should be none of her
Business. I love hubby but bio mum an the selfish kids that treat me
Like shit an only call their dad when they want something might be to much
For me to keep my marriage together which I know is what the kids
An bio mum have been trying to do from the start...
Guess they win
Thank you for your kind
Thank you for your kind words. I know you are right they will only win if I let them but it's been so hard over the last couple years. Taken for granted having my 3 kids see what these sk have done emotionally to both me, hubby an my kids. I'm also a full time carer for hubby who due to an accident suffers from serve depression so it's been hard having to control all the kids by myself an look after him an make sure neither me or the kids said or did anything that would piss him off. Some days he's like a bomb waiting to go off it's like walking on egg shells an then I have to deal with bio an his kids shit too. When he speaks to bio mum about their kids he doesn't really tell me much anymore, I guess he knows I'm over it. He is either sleeping or in a mayor bad mood an doesn't speak to me or the kids but still insists on his kids coming for holidays. It's ok for him he's not having any extra work to do, that of course is up to me. When I tell him no she's not he wi agree with me but as soon as bio an sd ring they guilt him back into saying yes an then that's that I have no say In it. The sd that comes is starting to be really bad just like her sisters an I don't want my daughter around it to tell you the truth. But I have no option as sd lives out of town so she stays with us. The other 2 have done some back things to our family an now the younger one is starting to act the same way even though hubby does see it as yet.