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SD17 Dating a toxic boy

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SD17 is dating a biosexual boy she met through friends. So far my DW and I found out that this guy steals from stores and gave my SD17 a 200 purse that he ripped off from Juicy. Back story, SD17 gave us so many problems where we used to live that we had to call the police a couple of times on her from running off. So my DW sent to SD17 to live with her BF, but due to some legal issues he was living with his parents which they did not want my SD17 to live there. So she ended up living with my MIL. BF bought her a 5000 car that she wrecked after 3 weeks while picking up a boy. After 4 months she asked if she could come back and live with us. Now I have been SD17 SF for almost 13 years, we have had a pretty good relationship up til 4 years ago and every year it has gotten progressively worse.

Fast forward to the summer, now she comes back and things go well for the first 2 months, she calls about where she is and what she is doing. She brings this boy over to the house and at first we thought he was homosexual and she led us to believe this. Now the boy had problems at home and my DW felt bad for the boy. Well against my objections the boy stayed at our house. But I had the doors open all the time I did not got to bed until they did.

Well one night while SD17 was using my car she came home with this boy drunk!!! I was livid, during the night of fighting we found out all the times she was out with this kid she was having unprotected sex with this guy!! I immediately through him out of my house. Now my DW and SD17 had to go to the doctor about a rash or something, which my SD17 has. But she continues to fight with her mother about going out and seeing this kid. Now she has found out this kid attracted to males, but dates females.

BF was told all of this but he does not get involved to much. He talks to her and tells her well you know how your mom is... BLAH BLAH. He is her friend and not her father. Thanksgiving and Christmas we have had family here, my daughter and MIL. But they have been anything but calm, Thanksgiving week she did everything she could to hang out with this guy and Christmas EVE day she wanted to go 1 hour to pick him up because he needed a ride home because his ride left. This CAUSED a huge fight and instead of hanging out with family Christmas day opening presents she stayed in her room with the door locked. Her grandmother, basically did not see her granddaughter at all Christmas day!! I have an Austistic SON who needs more attention then she does and yet my DW and I end up having to deal with her.

Then when my DW goes to talk to her, they get into this issue fight she tells my wife to shut up and she is a mental case, blah blah. But when I jump in my DW says that I take to the extreme. I told her she could leave my house anytime her TEENAGE ass thinks she can make it. But still she is there. I have had to catch myself, because of my temper.