A few weeks ago I posted about my SD14 period hygiene, your replies were spot on and have helped so much, I've fully bought into disengagement and life has improved already - well mine has!

In my original post I mentioned the BM has asked me 'why I had such a problem communicating with SD'. Last night SO got a call from BM, SD is useless at getting up in the mornings, yesterday she wouldn't get out of bed so BM left her at home instead of getting her to school, would he help, could he talk to her blah blah blah (heard all this on loudspeaker not by asking by the way)...I really wanted to ask 'So BM why do YOU have such a problem communicating with your DD?'. Really wanted to laugh but had a good smile to myself instead