Why are you messing around with a woman who has kids? Obviously you're not ready to deal with children and may never be. That's not an insult or comment on your maturity just a statement of fact. Some people never have children because kids are horrible.
Find a woman who doesn't have children - there must be millions of them. Evaluate if you even want children and if not find a woman who agrees. Both of you get surgically neutered so no accidents happen and live a happy life.
Do not go and tell her why.
Do not go and tell her why.
Why are you messing around
Why are you messing around with a woman who has kids? Obviously you're not ready to deal with children and may never be. That's not an insult or comment on your maturity just a statement of fact. Some people never have children because kids are horrible.
Find a woman who doesn't have children - there must be millions of them. Evaluate if you even want children and if not find a woman who agrees. Both of you get surgically neutered so no accidents happen and live a happy life.