Hello! I am experiencing serious anger and resentment towards the BM of my SD and SS. I'm sure my situation isn't unique: she is difficult, angry, and sad and blames me for everything. She trash talks me to the kids. She makes my DH's life a living hell. She ignores me in public, refuses to say hello or thank you if I come to drop off the kids. I've done my best to follow all the rules--I don't say anything bad (or anything at all) about BM to the kids. I somehow lucked out to have (for the moment) a really sweet bond with my SD11 and SS9, so no complaints there.