Hello, my SO and I have been together for almost 6 years he has two kids(I cannot stand) and I have one and we have one together.  We have been enguaged and he wants to be married already, and I am just not there mostly due to some ups and downs in the relationship, but mostly becasue his kids, I resent them.  They are such babies and they are treated that way by dad and their mothers and I DO NOT go for that in my house.  My fiance and I have spoke about this and he tries to not baby them so much, but he has a 12 year old that is just too much, he acts like he is 3 years old I swear, he kn