I am not sure that I'm cut out for the life I consiciously stepped into with my current husband and his daughter.  Background, we have been together for four years and married for only four months.  He is a recovering alcoholic and struggled with the disease for two long years of which I helped him to seek treatment.  He neglected his daughter during that time and now he's "making up for what he lost out on".  He has two grown daugthers with one being what he refers too as "high functionining autism".  She is 22 years old and doesn't do anything.  She lives with her mother during the week a