Hi, this is my first blog/vent and it's a little long! Sorry!  I've been with my fiancé just over 3 years. His daughter was 4 when he moved in with my son and I. My son was 6 at the time. I also have 2 older children, my daughter was 20 and was living and studying in a different city and my oldest, 22 at the time, was living with his girlfriend. My fiancé has never got on with my daughter to the point of being rude to her. He doesn't help her with anything even if she asks for help.