So it is kind of interesting. SD graduated from HS and was very adamant to let it be known that she when she turned 18 she wouldn't be coming over for weekend visits anymore and she would let us know the holiday schedule. OK, whatever....please break my heart at that point she was more of a pain. The first year + of college we saw her 5 times total. DH might have seen hee a little more at SS ball games.

She stated for years she hated our house, she thought it was wrong that she didn't feel comfortable in our house, she had to ask if she was allowed to have pop, to take a shower, get a snack, eat breakfast, etc.

Now, since Christmas she has been to our house for 3 overnight visits, and we have had dinner another 3-4 times. We have seen her more in the last 3 months than the first year of college.

I am hoping that this is a sign that she is changing in her ways. I don't want the drama back in my life that surrounded her. SO we will see.