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why can't i have sex while step is here?

1996z28's picture

Does anyone else deal with this? SO says that while ss is here there must be specific times.

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Pinki3663's picture

I am having the same issue except I am the one who isn't in the mood when the skids are around. I do not have children of my own and them being here is still new to me. They are here EOW so what I do is I kick them out of the house to go play in the pool or ride their bikes.

Anywho78's picture

LMAO...since I've got resident Skids, I'd be screwed (or not)!

If the SKid is there, "relations" must take place in the bedroom, behind closed doors, preferably after SKid is soundly asleep in his own bed...other than that, what's the problem?

overworkedmom's picture

I-m so happy This is us too. Lock the bedroom door after kids are asleep and you are good to go. Parents are allowed to get frisky Wink

cant win for losin's picture

well then i would make sure dh know's i'm still taking care of business myself!

sorry dear if your frisky now, i already took care of it. maybe next time.

not2sureimsaneanymore's picture

This!

See, it sucks when sex is always on DH's time. Every so often, if it's getting too ridiculous, I deny him for a few days and let him know the reason I'm doing it is because I can't always be on his schedule, but he never tries to accommodate mine. Then he's more than ready to jump when I tell him to jump.

Wink

HadEnoughx5's picture

When DH and I were making plans to be married, we built an addition to his home. He came up with the idea to put the Master bedroom in an area not near any kids rooms. Made the bedroom large enough to put his massage table up and have our own bathroom. It was our own "nest" away from everyone.

Well, DH is too tired or does not want to have sex when the skids are around. That's half the month. The massage table has been set up maybe 5 times in 5.5 years of marriage. DH comes into the bedroom gets ready for bed, might cuddle for a bit and it's "good night, sweet dreams, love you".....lights out Sad